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There isn’t one perfect time to make bouquets that works for every florist, every order, or every environment. But if you’ve ever wondered about the best time to make a bridal bouquet because the process feels challenging or stressful, you’re not alone.
From my experience, making bridal bouquets earlier in the day often feels calmer and more manageable. Decisions feel clearer, the process flows more smoothly, and the results tend to feel more consistent.
We often hear that many people do their most important work in the morning, and bouquet making fits naturally into that idea for me. Bridal bouquets especially can feel intense. They require focus, sensitivity, and creativity at the same time, and because they play such an important role on a wedding day, they naturally carry extra pressure.

Earlier in the day, the mind often feels quieter. It’s also one of the few times when the environment around you can be truly quiet. You don’t need to pick up your phone, reply to emails, or respond to anyone. There’s no one around you asking questions or needing decisions. That stillness makes it much easier to fully focus on bouquet making and stay present with the flowers.
Bridal bouquets are different from most other arrangements. Small choices, like how one stem curves, how much space you leave, when to stop, can completely change the feeling of a bouquet. When both your mind and your surroundings are calm, it becomes easier to trust your eyes and hands and to know when a bouquet feels finished.
After waking up, there are usually several things that need attention first. This might include going to the farm or wholesaler, conditioning flowers, preparing materials, doing basic housework, or even making lunch for your kids. Once those essentials are done, choosing to work on bridal bouquets before moving on to other arrangements can create a much calmer start to the day.
When bouquets are finished early, they stop sitting in the back of your mind. That alone can change how the rest of the day feels.
Many of us push the hardest or most stressful task to later in the day. But even while working on something else, part of the mind is still thinking, “I still need to do that.” That quiet pressure can slowly drain energy and focus.
I truly believe that taking care of the most demanding work first—especially work that requires both focus and emotional energy—is one of the best ways to start the day well.
For example, if I know I need to write something important, but I start the day with smaller tasks – emails, conditioning flowers, organizing – by the time I sit down to write, half the day is gone and my mind isn’t shaper in the afternoon after lunch. All that time, the thought “I still need to write” stays in my head and creates unnecessary pressure.
Bouquet making used to feel exactly the same.

Before I created the StemSlider bouquet tool, I often felt very nervous about making hand-tied bouquets. Even when I had beautiful flowers, I wasn’t confident that the process would go smoothly or that the result would turn out the way I hoped.
To reduce that stress, I chose to make bouquets early in the morning, in a quiet and distraction-free environment. I would wake up around 4:30 a.m., have a coffee, go to the studio, take the bouquet flowers out of the cooler, stretch, play calm music, and begin designing around 5:30 a.m.—before my kids woke up and before my team arrived.
That quiet time made a huge difference. Once the bouquets were finished, the pressure was gone. I could then enjoy making other flower arrangements with my team, feeling relaxed and confident for the rest of the day.

When I first started my wedding flower business, I usually made bridal bouquets one day before the wedding. If the wedding was on Saturday, I would receive fresh flowers from the wholesaler on Wednesday, make smaller arrangements like cocktail flowers on Thursday, and then make bridal bouquets and centerpieces on Friday.
In reality, that schedule was very stressful. By Friday, I was already under pressure to finish a large number of centerpieces, and at the same time I was still struggling with bouquet making. Bouquets often took longer than I planned, and the stress of the deadline made everything feel rushed.
Over time, I decided to shift everything one day earlier, and that change made a big difference.
For Saturday weddings, I began receiving most of my flowers on Tuesday, allowing some blooms to open naturally on Tuesday and Wednesday. I then focused on making all bridal and bridesmaids’ bouquets on Thursday, and saved centerpieces and other arrangements for Friday.
This schedule felt much smoother. On Thursdays, my main focus was bouquets. I wasn’t distracted by a long list of other tasks, and I could give the bouquets the attention they needed. If I wasn’t fully happy with a bouquet, I could place it in the cooler and come back to it the next morning with fresh eyes without rushing.
Since then, making bridal and bridesmaids’ bouquets on Thursday for Saturday weddings has become my standard workflow.

If bouquet making feels challenging for you, and if you usually leave it until late morning or afternoon, I encourage you to try making bridal bouquets earlier in the day, just once. You may also find that shifting bouquet making to an earlier day in the week, such as making bridal bouquets on Thursday for Saturday weddings, creates even more space and calm.
The best time to make a bridal bouquet is ultimately the time when you feel present and focused, and for me, that has often been the morning.
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